Pamela's ArtPrize Nine (2017) Installation
September 20 – October 8 • Amway Grand Plaza Hotel
…there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go…
Life's ebb and flow, at one point or another, brings us to a significant place where change and transformation can occur if we let go of whatever holds us back or weighs us down—like control, expectations, toxic relationships, or fear. But if we dare to release—even the past or the present, we will experience a new level of peace and soul healing. For ArtPrize 2017, seventy-thousand visitors collaborated by writing their own Let Go notes and adding them to the work.
One participant said, “While thinking about what to write, I realized that I hadn't forgiven my dad.” The pent up anger had been festering inside of him even though his dad had been dead for thirty years. After writing a Let Go letter and forgiving his dad, this ArtPrize visitor finally experienced freedom and healing.
Let Go is painted with acrylic, transparent fabric, and paper. One hundred twenty-six participants wrote “Let Go” letters and sentences to be collaged onto the work. Here's a sample of one of the submissions:
You said that I shouldn't be affected by your decision to divorce my dad. What you didn't realize was that you not only closed yourself off from Dad, but from me as well. When you would shut yourself away in your room and tell me not to bother you, I learned that I no longer had a mother to depend on; I had to fend for myself.
When I left for work one day, you changed the locks to prevent my dad from coming in. But you didn't realize this: you shut me out too. Over and over, you chose your “freedom” and your “own” path, in exchange for me. Your choices cut a deep wound in my heart.
Then one day, I realized that you would probably never apologize, so I needed to forgive you or my bitterness would end up consuming me. I had to accept you for being you, instead of wishing you were some other mom.
Mom, I'm letting go of my expectations of what our relationship should look like. I forgive you for the pain you caused, and I release you from any responsibility to heal me.
ArtPrize Visitors Respond
In honor of his deceased dog, a little boy simply wrote “Sam.”
Another child wrote: “My dad.”
A tearful woman whispered, “It's the hardest part…letting go.”
A middle-aged gentleman said, “I'm a new man now that I let go.”
An elderly man took out his hankie to dry his eyes and quietly walked away.
During ArtPrize, we heard of numerous Let Go office lunch-hour conversations reverberating throughout West Michigan.
Tell us your story #LetGo
Special thanks to PlexiCase Incorporated, Lone Pine Elementary School of Bloomfield Hills, Michigan, Moonlight Graphics, Marijo Heemstra, Melissa Burgess, Patty Alexander, and Jan VanderWal for their valuable contributions to Let Go.
Since 2009, ArtPrize is the world's largest open art competition. This 19-day event in Grand Rapids, Michigan draws more than 500,000 visitors with around 1500 participating artists. This unique event involves local and international artists, art, and active community participation. Veteran ArtPrize artist and facilitator Pamela Alderman is known for creating a new kind of artist/viewer work that invites audience collaboration. Her work lets others speak and respond. In 2015, her work, Hometown Hero, was voted into the Top 20 and finished 3rd Place for Time-Based exhibits.
Pamela has been an ArtPrize artist since 2009